Monday, June 19, 2017

Motivation Monday: Build A Life of (Core) Value

Who we are as people - and where we go in life - will be largely determined by the principles that we see as important, the morals we adopt as humans, the beliefs that we hold dear. These things dictate our behavior, they decide who we are, and they influence where we draw the proverbial line between what is "right" and what is "wrong."

It was November of 2016 when I received confirmation that certain things I'd been living with for years were due to the presence of PTSD. It was only a few months before that that I found the similarities between PTSD and my own life, thanks to the teachings in a series of videos I found on YouTube. But through those teachings, I also found something else, something that's been brewing in my mind now for almost a year.

I found myself with a new curiosity - a fascination with core values as a subject in themselves. What constitutes a core value, and how do we begin to recognize which ones most matter to us as individuals? And how do you order them - how do you number them to figure out which ones are highest on your list? Beyond that ... how do you seek to create a life that most aligns with the values you value most?


Honestly, I'm still not sure what order my values go in - although I can say for sure that there are certain ones that stand out for me in ways that cannot be ignored. Integrity is one - I simply can't tolerate or respect people who don't hold this particular value in high regard. I need people in my life who value the things that Integrity embodies - honesty, dependability, solidity, kindness. I hope to embody those qualities myself for the most part, and so I find myself almost desperately frustrated when spending too much time with others who don't.

There are countless other values though, some of which mean a lot to me, and others which don't - and that's why core values are themselves at the core of my Patreon podcasts. These podcasts are a monthly exploration of core values as chosen from a list I found online; each podcast is something of a long blog post, but in an audio version that you could listen to while cooking, cleaning, driving, etc. Each one is (so far) just under six minutes long - and each one is thoughtfully written to explore not only why these particular values are (or are not) of importance to me, but also why they are (or can be) important to our human society as a whole.

These podcasts take a little more prep to create though, in the time required to explore my own personal connection to each chosen value, the investment of time taken to put those thoughts to paper, and the effort undertaken to record and edit each podcast into something I can be proud of as a content creator. For these reasons, my podcasts are only available to my Patreon subscribers, so I felt it a good idea to take time explaining what Patreon really is and how it works for creators like me (in correlation with supporters like you).

WHAT IS PATREON?
Patreon is a site that allows content creators to connect with their supporters in a whole new way, converting the usual give-and-take into a more solid relationship between small business and loyal patron. These creators, just like humans in general, come in all shapes and sizes, and we as a community create in a variety of content genres. On Patreon, you'll find a bit of everything, from writers to vloggers, from artists to musicians; with Patreon, each creator has the choice of what they offer their supporters, and the opportunity to ask for what they need most in the way of support.

Because the truth is, no matter what kind of artist you are, no matter what your chosen medium is - whether it's clay or paint or music notes ... or words ... art doesn't create itself, and art in itself doesn't pay the bills.

SO WHAT?
For many creators like me, Patreon is what stands in the gap between keeping a dream alive, and living a life that's only a shell of what it could be. There are any number of creator accounts currently thriving on Patreon with the support of people like you, and because of that kind of support, this world has more artists that are free to live an artistic life. It means we still have people who can paint and sing and write without being suffocated by the need to stifle their art in favor of their electric bill. Patreon allows people like you to give your favorite creators the ability to have art AND electricity.

THAT'S PROBABLY EXPENSIVE THOUGH, RIGHT?
Actually, that's the best part - it isn't, and doesn't have to be. With Patreon, you subscribe to your favorite creators the same way you subscribe to Netflix or Gwynnie Bee or any other monthly service. And just like with any of those services, you choose your own level of benefit/commitment. For example, my Patreon currently has seven reward tiers to choose from, ranging from $1-$20 a month, and each tier has a different set of included benefits for my supporters. Most importantly, each upper-level tier also includes the benefits of all lower-level tiers, so my $15 patron receives not only the $15 reward, but also everything from the $1, $2, $3, $5, and $10 tiers. Patrons can choose at any time to edit their pledges, giving more or less as they see fit or can afford, and changing or canceling a Patreon membership is SO easy (I've done it once myself, and it literally took less than two minutes).

BUT I DON'T NEED ANOTHER THING TO "BABYSIT."
Another of my favorite things about Patreon is that it pretty much does everything by itself. I can even schedule my writing bits to go up automatically, which means I can work myself ahead of my deadlines and earn some time "off" now and then. I also like that your information stays private and so does mine - Patreon takes care of everything to do with monthly charging, and they also keep track of who sees what (according their chosen reward tiers, etc.). The site itself is intuitive and well-organized, easy to operate and comfortable to use - AND you don't have to check in all the time in order to stay updated. Patreon settings allow you to choose what you see and how you see it - you can even set up notifications that'll let you know when someone you follow or support adds new content!

YEAH BUT WHAT DO I GET OUT OF IT?
That depends on the creators you support. Some of the vloggers offer extra exclusive videos, or exclusive bloopers from the videos they share on YouTube. Other creators offer exclusive podcasts or e-magazines, or early access to their music or other art. Some even offer their patrons a little bit of control over their process, such as choosing what they write next or what the topic of their next video might be. To clarify and offer examples, here are mine:

  • $1 - For this tier, I post a monthly short story. Each story is around 1500-2500 words, and each one is posted along with the photo I used as inspiration for the writing. On this tier, I also post photos and mini-blogs (I call them PhLogs - PhotoLogs) as I go through my day to day life. These are often a lot less focused than what I post here, and are usually quite a bit more personal. My patrons are getting the inside scoop in a way that no one else can - and as a bonus, new patrons also have access to the entire backlog of $1 content!
  • $2 - Currently on this tier, I'm posting one poem a month. These are usually emotion-driven and so they're quite personal, which is why they are on one of the higher tiers. These are a look inside my most personal thoughts, as it often takes a very strong emotion to drive me to poetry. Once my Patreon account hits the goal of $20 a month in pledges (we're just about $1 short, so ONE more patron would make the difference!), then I'll be bumping this tier up to two poems a month! Patrons on the $2 tier also have access to the monthly short stories and other postings from the $1 tier.
  • $3 - On this tier, you help take charge of the way the $1 tier flows! We currently have seven active romance stories on the $1 tier, each one with a different plot, each one focused on a different couple. So each month, Patrons on the $3 tier get to vote on which couple will be featured in the next month's $1 story. It's a great way to take charge, and you still get access to all the content from the $1 and $2 tiers!
  • $5 - This is the podcast tier; on this tier, you'll have access to the Core Value podcasts I record each month, along with all the past podcasts! And of course, you'll also have access to everything from the $1, $2, and $3 tiers.
  • $10 - On this tier, you'll have early access to any and all of my future novels! Each time I finish a novel, I'll put out a call to my $10 patrons, asking for their direct-to-kindle email addresses. This will allow me to send my newest books straight to my Patrons' kindles, FREE, a full month before release! It's the last chance for ME to polish the work before it goes out to the world, and this is YOUR chance to participate - you'll be invited to let me know about any formatting or editing errors, AND you'll have your name included in the acknowledgments of the book! As always, patrons at this level also have access to everything at the lower levels, which means $10 patrons are rewarded with EVERYTHING I've talked about so far.
  • $15 - This is the live tier, where you'll basically be reading my novels AS I WRITE THEM. With my current writing schedule and stress level, this means one chapter a month - but I'm looking forward to adding more to this in the future as time and life allow (and as more people sign on to this tier). I envision this being one of my most active tiers in the future, with (eventually) as much as a chapter a week (or more?) being posted for patrons to read (all for the same pledge from patrons - it won't cost more!). The coolest thing about this tier is that since patrons are literally the first to see my writing (even before editing or anything else), this is a chance to catch errors I might have made, or offer feedback into the story itself (such as the plot, characters, scenery, writing style, etc). It's your chance to take an active role in my writing in a way that can actually help direct my career. You also have access to all the previous reward tiers too, as well as all previous content.
  • $20 - On this tier, you take charge of YOUR writing. In addition to all the rewards of the previous tiers, you're now taking a step toward a whole new partnership with me - because on this tier, you're signing up to have your writing critiqued by me! Twice a month, you'll have chances to send bits (2000 words or less) of your own writing to me, and I'll look over them to offer feedback, editing suggestions, or other coaching. Your writing can be whatever you want it to be, too - so that means it could be an essay, a memoir, a blog post, or a chapter of YOUR next great novel!
One of the best things about Patreon (I know, I've mentioned so many "best things" already but Patreon just doesn't stop, y'all) is that Patron support is something that builds on itself in a way that doesn't need MOREMOREMORE from anyone. I'm still posting the same $1 short stories whether I have 4 patrons or 400 - and if Patreon supports my writing enough to allow me time to write more, I can do that without asking anyone to give more. It's truly a partnership between my patrons and I, and I love that we're building a community together that we all care about - proven by the fact that we're all giving something, whether it's content or cash.

But don't just check Patreon out for me - check it out for the already high and steadily increasing number of amazing creators that keep the site alive and thriving just by being there. (But of course, if you did want to check it out specifically for me, you could find my Patreon page here.)
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